3 ways to level UP this holiday season

Don't trip this holiday season...


So,

You're on your way to your family's gatherings or you yourself are hosting this year and you're feeling triggered or dread just wishing it to be done with already?

Or perhaps you don't actually have "family" to gather with and are feeling alone or pressured?

Or maybe you're feeling joyful, appreciative, & peaceful? 

Remember there's a literal holiday collective "vortex" that automatically activates your insides... for deeper healing.

Whatever your experience, be an even stronger version of yourself this time around by plugging into the only true place you're highest self desires to be anyway, which is withYou.


Here are my top 3 ways to stay connected during this time of year:

1--Say NO.  You have the right to not be so flippin busy.  Prioritize what and who are important for you to spend time with.  Say No to those events & gift exchanges that you simply don't have a desire to be a part of.  The more you say No, the easier it'll be to heal the real experiences that trigger the bejesus from you because you'll have way more energy and connection to your self-power to do so.


2--If that familiar person is creating problems & pressures where none exist or blubbering words that're not serving anyone including themselves, and results in you feeling the impulse to get far away or be later left cleaning up the energetic messes within your own self.... then... kindly excuse yourself. 

Yes, you have FULL permission to leave the room, to leave the party, to go outside and take breaks away from whatever it is that doesn't serve your highest self.  Just as everyone has freedom to show up however they may be showing up, you too have freedom to take care of yourself and remove yourself from the situations that don't serve you. 

Even just taking breaks will result in you feeling an increase in your own power to honoryourself and your needs, and it just might be enough to turn the gathering around for yourself so you focus on interactions that do UPlift you.


3--Remember that EVERYTHING you're experiencing in your environment is a direct reflection of Yourself on the inside.  That means that you place the power back into your own Self.  You see how Uncle Seth, your boss, or your Mom are showing up isinformation for you to know an even deeper, more true part of you.

Or, if you're feeling all alone, you claim all of those parts of yourself, loving you Up and your inner child back into her Wholeness.

See all of your environment and triggers as gifts of valuable information and opportunities for deeper healing.  Use this season to heal the parts that're ready to be healed and also to release more in your life that doesn't line up with who you are becoming.

This may include releasing people who no longer align with your true self.  

Have you gotten the memo that abusive, toxic relationships and tolerance to them are no longer acceptable to the collective?  You have FULL permission to release all of them.

I'm not sayin it's always the easiest to do but it's guaranteed that you have a mega posse of Angelic support guiding you, loving you, delivering the best of the best to trigger the f#ck outta you so you can heal deeper in ways your soul is ready for.

Know that your Angelic posse doesn't judge you, they unconditionally love you, and they're always with you celebrating you.

I invite you to use this time, the final 6 weeks of 2018, to clean her up as you prepare readiness for this upcoming grand year ahead of you.

Complete all cycles that're outdated for yourself, balance your karma scales upright, and open yourself to the newest blessings and beginnings that you're ready to experience into your new year.

I'm here celebrating you for all of your victories!

The #1 essential to manifest your abundance is to...

Reeeeeeeeelax & Chiiiiiiill out.

Do whatever you need to do to relax yourself on the INSIDE.  

We're all energy, vibration, and the universe (which is us) responds to our vibration.

Get present to these 2 questions:

1---What FEELINGS will more money bring you?  

2---What THOUGHTS will you be thinking the more you're FEELING those feelings that more money brings for you?

Will you be feeling and thinking more peace & calm?

Will you be feeling and thinking more freedom, fun, & joy?

Will you be feeling and thinking more spacious within yourself?

FEEL these feelings Now.  

Align with these thoughts Now.

BE these experiences Now.

Do whatever you need to do to remain in this space. 

I'm not saying it's always easy to do BUT if you desire to experience the life of your dreams then this is what's required to experience it.  

It takes practice just like anything else!

And it does get easier just like anything that you continue to practice.

It's a muscle that needs to get worked and it WILL get stronger for you.   

REMEMBER.... The Universe is ALWAYS working on your behalf to bring you even MORE, but you must allow yourself to chiiiiiiiiiill and relax the f#ck out.  

Let the Universe do what it's designed to do, which is to romance you like no other in ALL the ways that bring you joy.

YOU are soooooooooooooooooo worth it.

Rise Now with 4 steps...

Be honest, speak up, and LOVE yourself!

Your REAL power resides within the same space where all your life's traumas, challenges, and hardships are stored.  

Rise not despite your pain.  Rise FROM your pain.

Heal ALL of the parts INSIDE of you that've ever experienced betrayal, loneliness, over dominance, & grief of any kind.   

You were born to THRIVE.  You came here to THRIVE.

4 Steps to Rising Now in this time and space:

1--Speak up, tell your truth, be seen, be heard no matter what you may fear.

2--LOVE yourself so deeply and so highly, Woman. 
BE DEVOTED TO YOU, and allow others to treat you the way you allow yourself to love you.

3--Connect into your WHY and your higher purpose on this planet. WHY are you here? What makes your life worth living? How can you be of greater contribution to our planet on the daily?

4--Get extra help from loved ones, professionals, coaches as needed.

We ALL need help and guidance to live our BEST life possible.

Your inner girl is calling for you to love her, Woman...

It's always time to love up your inner child, your inner girl.

If you feel triggered, wounded, sad, angry, rejected, abondoned, resentful, invisible, anxious, scared.... 

LOVE UP YOUR GIRL.

If you feel excited, joyful, blissful, euphoric, hopeful, motivated, inspired, loved...

LOVE UP YOUR GIRL.

Tell her ALL of the things you needed to hear and needed to feel when you were a little girl, teenager, young lady, woman.  

Slow down.

Be present with her. 

Listen to her. 

Validate her.

Let her know that you have ALL the time in the world for her & that you're with her for eternity.  You're not going anywhere this time!

The reason you may feel separate from her isn't because of what that other person/people did or didn't do or give to you, it's because ultimately you turned your heart away from her.

There's no judgement here.  You've done nothing wrong.  You've done the best you could do by protecting her (you) when others & the world around you weren't so kind to her (you).  

Thank your protective self, your ego mind, for taking care of her (you) in the best way it knew how to at the time.  

Now it's time to tell it that it's job is over.

You're a Woman.  A strong, beautiful, emotionally intelligent, capable Woman.  And it is your Woman that is running the show now.  

Show your little girl the Woman you've become, and love her devotingly & with constant loyalty.

Choose her (you) before anyone or anything else.

Choose her (you) in every single moment of every day until she gets that you are the one she's been searching for, dreaming of, waiting for her entire life to come rescue her.  

You are The One.  The one & only.  Good news at that!

Wherever she is, so are you.  You are One of the same. 

You are her solution and you are her greatest miracle of love she's been searching for her entire life.  

From my inner girl to yours,
Janet

Ever wonder WHO you really are?...

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Hello Universe,

YOU...

are the cosmos
the planets & constellations
the fairy dust of enchanted forests
the warmth & energy of the sun
the waves of the ocean
the power of the moon
the godly paws of our angel animals
the giggles of pure children
the creativity of brilliant artists
the intelligence of divine nature
the power that pulsates our hearts
to our ONE beating heart
& ONE intelligent mind

(wink wink)  Do you remember?

(nudge nudge)  How will you be YOU today, which will remind others who they really are?

Have FUN with it!

Lovin you infinitely,
Janet

Acceptance & Letting Go

There is always a divine order, purpose, and intelligent force streaming through our every moment, but this is not to say that our life as a human is a fair one.  Sometimes, there is taking one for the team.  There is a certain amount of grace that is called forth when we must accept that we are channeling the divine, and as a result of this divine expression, we move with the natural impulse of highest order of love.  This process may result in relationships of all kinds ending, but it does not mean it is a failure or anyone failed.  It may simply mean that this specific way that is being birthed into expression is the way that love is flowing in that moment.  I accept this.  I accept all circumstances as they are and as they unfold.  I hear the call from deep within me that moves me to express in a myriad of ways.  I align with our divinity no matter what the consequences or result of this alignment brings me; no matter what other people judge me for.  From this place, I regret nothing.  I grieve at times because sometimes the action that is called for will surely bring relationships & life experiences to a completion of their course.  There is loss.  There is sadness, but suffering is minimized when I accept this wholeheartedly and let go.  It requires me to be unattached to specific people & specific experiences remaining in my life.  It requires a dedication of being in servitude to this higher power no matter what this means for my life.  It means I will certainly experience disappointment and at times devastation, but it also means I will surely receive and experience love and power beyond measure.  I must remember that love has infinite faces.  There is love that is the happy go lucky, feel good experience.  There is love that is the down right dark and dirty truth, and I will rise with truth no matter the cost it brings in my own life.  I breathe as I accept, and then I let go. 
---Janet Nicksic

Dolphins LOVE to teach us!

Hello dearly beloved, as our purple glorious Prince would say.  
I've been fortunate to have been experiencing a lot of travel in the past couple years, and one of my most recent excursions was back in Hawaii on the Big Island getting to swim with our wild dolphin friends.  They sure bring deep joy, peace, laughter, and insight.  That is, highly evolved, intelligent, insight. They welcomed us to swim in their pods and to play with us along with communicating through their example how to have more "workable" relationships in our own lives.  Dolphins swim in unison with each other and have a clear, natural flow in which they swim, co-exist, and BE with each other in harmony.  In the numerous swims I have experienced with them over the years, one of the many consistent fascinating things that continues to spark me is how as speedy as they swim with so many abrupt spins and turns, and as close as they get to me and to each other, I have never witnessed them crashing into myself or each other.  They are graceful, intuitive, and respectful creatures.  Their approach with others is to glide without colliding into each other.  I really understood this message into my own life in regards to relationships and boundaries.  Having boundaries or experiencing lack of boundaries is a struggle so central for many.  Do as the dolphins do, practice seeing ourselves and our relationships with clear distinctive lines of unison swimming and flowing without the crashing into each other that unnecessarily can create so much disturbance, suffering, and general "unworkability" in our relationships and in our lives.  Eventually, with more awareness and practice, our lives become less focussed on implementing boundaries, and become more organically focused on generating more intelligent flow that feels more harmonious and loving.  This translates into experiencing more love for ourselves and love for the ones we care about.  Our relationship with our selves and our relationships with others shift in more effective ways.  If only we would all simply "do as the dolphins do."  
Much love and blessings always.
Janet