Don't trip this holiday season...
You're on your way to your family's gatherings or you yourself are hosting this year and you're feeling triggered or dread just wishing it to be done with already?
Or perhaps you don't actually have "family" to gather with and are feeling alone or pressured?
Or maybe you're feeling joyful, appreciative, & peaceful?
Remember there's a literal holiday collective "vortex" that automatically activates your insides... for deeper healing.
Whatever your experience, be an even stronger version of yourself this time around by plugging into the only true place you're highest self desires to be anyway, which is withYou.
Here are my top 3 ways to stay connected during this time of year:
1--Say NO. You have the right to not be so flippin busy. Prioritize what and who are important for you to spend time with. Say No to those events & gift exchanges that you simply don't have a desire to be a part of. The more you say No, the easier it'll be to heal the real experiences that trigger the bejesus from you because you'll have way more energy and connection to your self-power to do so.
2--If that familiar person is creating problems & pressures where none exist or blubbering words that're not serving anyone including themselves, and results in you feeling the impulse to get far away or be later left cleaning up the energetic messes within your own self.... then... kindly excuse yourself.
Yes, you have FULL permission to leave the room, to leave the party, to go outside and take breaks away from whatever it is that doesn't serve your highest self. Just as everyone has freedom to show up however they may be showing up, you too have freedom to take care of yourself and remove yourself from the situations that don't serve you.
Even just taking breaks will result in you feeling an increase in your own power to honoryourself and your needs, and it just might be enough to turn the gathering around for yourself so you focus on interactions that do UPlift you.
3--Remember that EVERYTHING you're experiencing in your environment is a direct reflection of Yourself on the inside. That means that you place the power back into your own Self. You see how Uncle Seth, your boss, or your Mom are showing up isinformation for you to know an even deeper, more true part of you.
Or, if you're feeling all alone, you claim all of those parts of yourself, loving you Up and your inner child back into her Wholeness.
See all of your environment and triggers as gifts of valuable information and opportunities for deeper healing. Use this season to heal the parts that're ready to be healed and also to release more in your life that doesn't line up with who you are becoming.
This may include releasing people who no longer align with your true self.
Have you gotten the memo that abusive, toxic relationships and tolerance to them are no longer acceptable to the collective? You have FULL permission to release all of them.
I'm not sayin it's always the easiest to do but it's guaranteed that you have a mega posse of Angelic support guiding you, loving you, delivering the best of the best to trigger the f#ck outta you so you can heal deeper in ways your soul is ready for.
Know that your Angelic posse doesn't judge you, they unconditionally love you, and they're always with you celebrating you.
I invite you to use this time, the final 6 weeks of 2018, to clean her up as you prepare readiness for this upcoming grand year ahead of you.
Complete all cycles that're outdated for yourself, balance your karma scales upright, and open yourself to the newest blessings and beginnings that you're ready to experience into your new year.
I'm here celebrating you for all of your victories!